1. Brooke C, December 1, 2009:

   My mother tried to sell me. She abandoned me when I was about 1 year old. And I can tell you that even with all that pain life is worth living. I now have a daughter and 2 grandchildren and it was worth waiting for.
   Trust me you are supposed to be here and someday you will be surrounded by people that love you. It just takes time for some of us.
   If you need someone to talk to the Boystown hotline is open 24 hours a day.
   1-800-448-3000
   People care, you just havent met them yet.

2. ., December 1, 2009:

   C’mon….please don’t be like that….don’t think that. If you really think that, maybe you and her and her new husband even, can go to therapy and talk about it. It’s all gonna be ok. Trust me. I’ve felt like that too. Like I wasn’t wanted, and I really wasn’t, but I’m here. There was something that made my mom choose me and give birth to me…..so all I can do is appreciate life.

3. Bree, December 1, 2009:

   suicide in not the answer. i’m sure ur mother really does love you. trust me it’s a mothers instinct to love her child. and if she really doesn’t want you or love you like u say then u need to show her that ur stronger than that and that u don’t need her. she needs to know that whether she loves u or not doesn’t matter and that u r a strong and independant person and u don’t need her opinion or support.

4. Rosie C, December 1, 2009:

   PLZ DONT.
   im all too familiar with ur situation but YOU r NOT a waste of space. if ur contemplating suicide (conciously or unconciously) to get bak at ur mum like i did. its not worth it. its her lost if she ‘truly’ doesnt want u. my remedy was to help others – it made me feel beta knowing my life became a blessing to others instead of making my dad/siblings grieve over my dead body. talk to someone…anyone.

5. perty, December 1, 2009:

   moms and dads suck…your 17! 1 more year! then you can do what you want, and live your life how you want to!!!
   get your mind off of home. maybe try getting a part time job after school?

6. DA METALZ, December 1, 2009:

   dont die matey……youll be happier

7. custard!, December 1, 2009:

   i can relate to you i have been there and still am sometimes. its very hard not knowing what direction your life will take. i know about feeling completely worthless. im a nice guy had a decent job and my wife dumped me for a drug dealing mexican. it about put me over the edge. i guess she just wanted a bad boy. i feel like wow she dumped a good loving provider for that thing. so its alot like your mother choosing someone over you. i know its rough. the reason im telling you this is. i hate to hear of others in as much pain as i have been in. i cant tell you it gets any better. but i am starting to have faith that it will. someone out there will most likely find you and need you and love you. it sounds if you are still young. there are alot of wonderful things to experience out there. also i hope that one day if i again find myself in your shoes and i call out in desperation. you might be able to be there for me. as i write this its even making me feel better. i suppose you have already served a purpose in my life. letting me know that im not the only one. so im sorry if i screwed up your plans of you being worthless because you served a worth while purpose to me. i wish you the best in finding happiness im sure its out there.

8. Steven P, December 1, 2009:

   I don’t know the reson why your mother and father split up but I know even that is on your mind too.And I know you wished your mother and father would have stayed together. But in time husbands and wifes lose the love for one another but they never lose there love for you.Your mother and father love you and that will never change.Your mother hurt when the two of them split up but she went on with her life and fround another to fill the vord when your father laft. She loves you even if you don’t think so now. Just sit down with your mother and tell her how you feel taking your life is not the answer.Ask her if you two can spend some time together by your selfs maybe go to the mall and spend the day together.Thinking taking your life you will see your uncle is not cool I bet now he wishes he had lived. Death is the end there is no starting over, live for all that life has to give good as well as the bed.Things will get better but you have to make the first move your mother does not feel the way you think she feels give her a chance to show she loves you.

9. answer-m, December 1, 2009:

   But she chose life. You´re here because somebody wanted you to be. Maybe you SHOULD be here. And as long as you´re alive, you have a task before you, and that is to one day be able to tell your mom how you feel. But now you are overwhelmed by this task.
   Think of it this way, these terrible thoughts of suicide are putting your life in danger. You have to resist them, and put aside this overwheming job for now, and instead just keep focused on the next day. Just to survive the next day. And one day you will be able to tell her, but now you should just focus on surviving. Think of your dad, who would not only have to face this divorce but also of loosing you. Suicide is a terrible thing. It would be terrible for you and your family. You would leave behind an unfinished task. Your life is not finished, and neither is your relationship with your mom. http://suicidehotlines.com/national.htmlhttp://www.directionforourtimes.com/docs…

10. *L*, December 1, 2009:

    Maybe you would like to grow up and do something to change the crappy divorce laws in your country that encourage this sort of behaviour?
    If you committed suicide you would be showing that you are weak and worthless.
    If you have any fight in you, you might not want to die leaving people that impression.
    Of course, I can see that what you really want to do is upset our mother and look down on her after she receives the news that you had committed suicide, but is she worth it?
    Remember, what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger!

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