1. keri gee, December 2, 2009:

   Get him some professional help ASAP! Most likely his issues are much more complex than what he’s telling you.And remember this, the fact that he said something was a cry for help. Most people just do it without saying anything.Paisana,you can e-mail me if you need someone to talk to about this.

2. Negrita, December 2, 2009:

   He is being manipulative and needs help. If he doesn’t want it to be over, tell him he needs to get help. YOU are NOT responsible for his actions.

3. cool.pan, December 2, 2009:

   It has nothing to do with you. He tries to commit suicide because he has a chemical imbalance that causes depression, and he’s just blaming you. Tell his family about it so they can get him on medication.

4. kadel, December 2, 2009:

   girl friend you need to think long and hard the next time he might take you out instead, i know you have seen are read news where a husband flip and kill wife some times the both of them good luck god bless you have a problem

5. ?, December 2, 2009:

   you should talk it out with him PRONTO. I dont care what you feel, but just talk it over if you care about him!

6. gc_chick, December 2, 2009:

   go with him to get some professional help. i know its a big burden on ur shoulders but try ur best to help him out good luck

7. ice princess, December 2, 2009:

   Don’t say your life sucks first of all because it can only get better. And you need to get your friend some help it’s not your fault. I know two people who took their own life and although I wasn’t close enough to feel as if it were my fault I still wish I would have seen the signs so I could get them some help they were great guys they just had to much emotional trauma built up and they never talked about it or seeked the help of ANY one. He could be dangerous if he doesn’t care about his own life it’s quite possible he isn’t concerned with anyone elses either. Good Luck sweetie

8. angel girl, December 2, 2009:

   Talk to him or her! Go together and get some help ASAP!

9. LeeLynn, December 2, 2009:

   First of all, has your mate actually tried to commit suicide or is the mate just saying that? A person that wants to commit suicide will do it and not just talk about it. Sounds like your mate is trying to put all the blame on you by saying your’e putting too much stress on him, so you could feel guilty. I suggest for YOU to take the easy way out and LEAVE that pathetic mate.

10. renra, December 2, 2009:

    Sounds like this guy is on a major pity party. Especially if he tries to blame his problems on you. Someone like that can never deal w/their problems cuz they can never take responsibility for them. Until he can take control of his life (maybe start w/counseling) I would break up w/him.

11. blue_eye, December 2, 2009:

    well just try to help him and dont pressure him too much

12. Juan, December 2, 2009:

    Your boyfriend/husband has some mental issues that probably have nothing to do with you at all. He didnt have a backup plan when his suicidal attempts failed, so what else to do? Blame the girlfriend. I wouldnt take it. He needs a phychiatrist as soon as possible, and I think once he’s done, it’s time to call it quits.
    Im sorry, hope this helps:].

13. Brootully Onnist, December 2, 2009:

    he needs to go to a speacial program! thats all i have to say or you need to pack all you can of you stuff and get out! thats what my mom had to do but she made it =)

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