Comments on: How Would You Feel If Someone Committed Suicide Because Of The Way You Treat Them?

By: KornOnMy

KornOnMy — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 17:36:44 +0000

Obviously you would feel pretty bad, but you can’t take on responsibility of another persons life, they are the ones that do that. Too often in relationships between men and women, one partner used the treat of committing suicide if the other wanted to leave them – it’s emotional blackmail. In your case within a group of friend, it’s a different reason, but all the same you have no control if they want to live or to die. It’s sad of course, but there is something wrong with the person in the first place, be that insecurity or what, you can not heal the things in their life that have gone wrong for them. This person obviously did not belong in this circle, so again why feel its your fault.
We all have to face unpleasant things in life, others are not always kind to us, so we learn to mix with others that are suitable to our own characters, Becoming an adult really is quiet a rude awakening, you don;t act as a child say silly things to get what you want, this person I suspect had a very low self esteem, but they are the only person that can seek help for themselves, it’s not up to the rest of us. So please try to see it as it really was, this person choose to get out of it for good, you are not the one that pushed them to that, nor are you responsible for what they did. Be sad for them but don’t take blame on your shoulders, you are not guilty.
No doubt you feel bad for perhaps going along with the others and ignoring this person, and no doubt in the future you will think more about how you treat others people as they come in and out of your life, but as I keep saying your not guilty for them ending their lives.

By: yeah, i much fancy that

yeah, i much fancy that — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 17:10:26 +0000

I’d feel like my goal was accomplished.

By: Im falling for you ?

Im falling for you ? — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 16:31:27 +0000

i would feel guilty even if i didnt know the dude

By: hotwheel

hotwheel — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 15:50:12 +0000

You would feel Terrible and Bad that you did it to them. Like you wished you could take it back.. like you wanted to turn back time.
Personally, i would cry for days and wish so much to be different.
i hope it works out ;/

By: desmolit

desmolit — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 14:57:49 +0000

ive been through this stuff before, and honestly, if they commit suicide for being ignored, thats not my fault. if they didnt bring it to anyones attention and just let it happen then its all on them. people commit suicide for selfish reasons and selfish reasons only. no one forced them to do it they chose that path……i know it sounds harsh and almost mean but its no ones fault but their own…..
BUT i would feel sad that they felt that there was no other way to fix the problem…