1. Lisa, December 6, 2009:

   No way to get the guy to love her again. For guys, the biggest turn off is a desperate women (maybe not sexually but as datable material, no way). The only thing your friend can do is stop being so melodramatic because I really don’t think she will actually commit suicide and is just looking for attention. Just in case, tell her parents or get her in touch with a suicide hotline ASAP.

2. Lod732, December 6, 2009:

   hey…the first step is to calm down and take a deep breath. There is no way to make a guy love a girl that they broke up with for no reason, so please forget that idea. this may sound crazy and your friend may hate you for a while, but you NEED to tell her parents, or someone over 25 who she knows and trusts with her life. i only know this becuase i am only alive due to my best friend who told someone for me. i hated her for about two weeks…but now, i am so grateful she did, or i wouldn’t be here today. please calm down, and it will be okay, stay with your friend, and listen to her, be her shoulder to cry on. but please for me, a complete stranger, get some help for her!!!

3. icankill, December 6, 2009:

   You can not force someone to love you again. All that can be done is for your friend to realize that she is a worthy person and It is his lose not hers. If you feel she is serious then get her to the hospital she needs mental help right now! We are not only valued for who we are in a relationship she has to see value in herself apart from any man.

4. Mary B, December 6, 2009:

   Tell her that no one can force a person to love them back. He was once a part of her life but it doesn’t mean that her whole life would revolve around him. There are so many fishes in the ocean. She won’t run out of one.
   lf she doesn’t come to her senses, slap her. Yes, a good slap. Better that than her committing suicide.

5. brett.ba, December 6, 2009:

   You can never make anyone love you if they don’t. Tell her that no man is worth taking her life for and there is more to life than just some guy. She should think about what her suicide will do to her parents and the people that love her. Suicide affects the family and friends left behind and not the person who does it. Therefore she shouldn’t be selfish and think of only her feelings. After all, that guy will continue with his life and seeing other girls and where will she be, feeding worms. Life is too precious to waste on some man.

6. Kat, December 6, 2009:

   Contact her family and get together a group of people for a support network. Do not leave her alone or she will feel like no one cares. If you cant let her see or hear you talk to her family. You can send text messages from the yahoo messenger and other online programs. You can send them from you cell to a landline, it is just a robotic voice that speaks what you type. get help before it is too late

7. Jenny, December 6, 2009:

   Talk to her parents, a teacher, any trusted adult you know who knows her. She needs help as soon as possible. It doesn’t matter if she asked you not to say anything to anyone. When it comes to harming herself or harming others, you do not need to keep any promises.

8. Erin, December 6, 2009:

   you have got to get help fast! no matter what she says, she is crying out for help just by the fact that she told you. you need to tell somebody! there are suicide hotlines you can call, or talk to her parents! if it comes to it, call the police.

9. Jessica T, December 6, 2009:

   Just show her some very buitiful way to finish her self.
   B’cos I dont think so she may achieve something big if she lives also, and avoid friendship with these sought of coward and stupid people who doesnt know the buitiful life given by god.
   just push her in some old use less well.

10. strangek, December 6, 2009:

    You need to tell her family and maybe you should try to talk to this guy yourself..You don’t have to say she threatened to commit suicide but you can say she is in a very bad way…Act fast though…Good luck…

11. dazegg20, December 6, 2009:

    tell her family. and tell her no guy is worth her own life.

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