wow, what a sad story. This family needs to be REPORTED to state family services ASAP. And the police needs to be sued for not taking action.
I cannot judge her for what she did. Obviously she thought it was the right thing to do.
HOWEVER, I would have made THEM pay not taken my own life. I would have made them miserable. But I cannot blame her.
Jimmy,
June 21, 2010:
I’m just in pure shock, this is insane.
completely agree with #1, this needs to be reported and pursued. If you still have any energy left, you should try and tell someone important what happened, get this out in the news or like-wise.
I’d say it was for the better, no one should live under those inhumane circumstances.
deercrossingsign,
June 21, 2010:
you say you’re her friend yet you knew this had been going for 8 years or so??? If she was getting that much abuse, you should have called the police! Or Child Services. Just cause you say no one believed her doesn’t mean she should have been left alone without any help. You have to keep trying to get help. Taking pictures or videos of the abuse. Call the police while she’s getting abused so the parents can get caught in the act. idk, something smart! You can’t just say no one listened and just moved on… I feel really bad for her… i’m sorry, but i don’t think you were a good friend to her. If she was my friend, i would have been much smarted about how i would have handled the situation….
Miles,
June 21, 2010:
hey man its me again, miles look i had a friend named sara who shot her self in the heart, i was upset and i ALWAYS thought that suicide was NEVER the answer, but i read you story and omg i was WRONG, NO ONE SHOULD HAVE TO LIVE LIKE THAT! im really sorry for your loss man i really am
and i think it was for the better, as much as it pains me to say it it really was, and i KNO FOR A FACT SHE IS IN A BETTER PLACE NOW! and again im really sorry.
and i think “deercrossingsigns” is WAY out of line! i believe you tried. i think she doesnt kno what shes talking about!
*Future PA*,
June 21, 2010:
Hello,
Well first off im really sorry for your loss.
Second off I will go ahead and answer your question, I think it was for worse, im not really sure what her motive was for killing herself. Most people have a motive when there doing that along the lines of getting revenge, or they feel like there is nothing left living for or they just plain hate themselves. You didn’t say, so I don’t even know if you know but figuring that out will help answer your question. But either way in my opinion is worse. I have had someone commit suicide in the family and there are no positive effects of suicide for anyone. If you cared so much about her why did she think no one cared about her. I am just trying to piece this story together. Its hard to tell without knowing what really went on cause she was the only witness. Also with the other people, im not sure about reporting this , I guess the parents might go to jail if you win, but the facts are there is really no evidence. Also I have a question for you, if you went to the police or a councilor why didn’t they help? Please email me if you have any comments regarding my comment or you need any more help from me. merrbear95@yahoo.com