1. Titanic, June 30, 2010:

   DON’T!!!

   Life is better some some mean people in the world.

2. Kat M, June 30, 2010:

   youll regret it when your in hell

3. potato man, June 30, 2010:

   go hed who cares

4. Sprained Ankle, June 30, 2010:

   Buy a big pack of ramen noodles. They’re like 99 cents a serving (omg I know right?!?) and that way you won’t have to kill yourself over a bowl of soup.

5. Tracy Turnblad, June 30, 2010:

   Honey, I am so sorry you’re in this situation, because there isn’t a whole lot you can do about it. You’ve tried talking to your mom (who, let’s face it, doesn’t seem to be much in the communications department), and that didn’t help. Try talking to another adult–a school counselor, a grandparent, your dad, a teacher you trust–who can get you and your family some help, or at least give you a listening ear. If all else fails, try really hard to get scholarships, so you can move out and go to college as soon as possible.

6. ~Candy~, June 30, 2010:

   im sorry, i would say just to try and avoid them and take comfort in talking with friends, dont commit suicide because they are jerks, eventually you will be old enough to move out and then things will get better

7. lxjusticexl, June 30, 2010:

   Don’t kill yourself, get revenge. Work really hard at school, go to a good uni, get a good job, and make alot of money. With that money, put your mom into a nursing home.

8. abcdave0r, June 30, 2010:

   that’s rough but just obey your parents they are the the ones that will be there when you really need them.. you cant get sad off of little things like that.. its not big plus it was to help your family witch is always first. just hang in there she will see the light.. dont talk to her when she is in a pissed off mood or you will get nothing but negativity back.

   i hope this helps ya if you need someone to talk to just email me..

   =]

9. sally b, June 30, 2010:

   umm you should of made your own. just try to be nice to her and then if you can avoid her. at anytime, you can go to a friends house to avoid her or something.

10. ?_?, June 30, 2010:

    a) dont kill yourself, that would make the rest of the world unhappy=[
    b) tell your mom at all means necessary that your upset, even if it means making her mad and getting her boyfriend slightly mad. your her chld and your her responsibility so she has to deal wiht it.

11. L<3ve, June 30, 2010:

    do you have a counselor at school that can help?, or a best friend you can hang out with? your mom doesn’t seem to care, so why should you… make your own living and find help somewhere outside your house… you can also spend more time at school to get your mind off things…how old are you?

12. Football Guy, June 30, 2010:

    Don’t kill yourself. If you can’t talk to anyone in your family, talk to one of your friends or a teacher at school. Me and my mom have trouble as well, but just think about something nice and find a way to vent your feelings, but don’t kill yourself.

13. CrazyCute, June 30, 2010:

    you are so totally important and there is no reason you should commit suicide it will eventually get better dont worry

14. Jessica S, June 30, 2010:

    you know what everyone goes through that time in their life where they feel like no one loves them or cares for them…maybe your mom is going through a difficult time right now…has she always been like this … if not then you should make sure that you tell her how you feel about her behaviour even if she doesn’t want to hear it…or if she still doesn’t change you should get someone…an aunt or uncle or a friend to help you out…i hope you feel better

15. rustypuddle, June 30, 2010:

    1-800-273 TALK
    1-800-SUICIDE

16. RANB31, July 1, 2010:

    Don’t do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Talk it out!

17. Nonny0928, July 1, 2010:

    Suicide is not the answer! I can see why you are upset. Your mom is not treating you fairly. Is there another family member you can talk to? Or maybe a close friend, priest, school counselor?

    I don’t know you at all, but if you can’t find anyone else to talk to, you can e-mail me.

    (((HUGS)))

18. degrassifanatic907, July 1, 2010:

    sleep it off…tommorows another day!

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AsJL88HiQSntC5t1KPt5QgTsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20081202164741AAHvgcz

19. ?ÇH??Ï?H ¤?¤ MŸ??ÏQÚ??, July 1, 2010:

    do not do that please talk to a teacher, are a close friend, your so much more then you know. your a wonderful beautiful person with so much to share with someone, there’s light at the end believe me. take care you are loved.p;s if you need to talk call this number please 1-800-854-CLUB ,

20. Lor Lor, July 1, 2010:

    tell her tht ure leaving, and tell her tht its obviously tht she loves her boyfriend more than she loves you, and tht she has the nerve to bring him in here to live with her kids

    tht will really get her

    tell her tht if she cares som much about scott then to go off and live with him,

    suicide is something tht u dont want 2 do, and if u tell, some1 about is like a friend or a person at school, then tell them about it

    i know tht u may not want for them to listen 2 ure private life at home, but its the best way, trust me

21. boris v, July 1, 2010:

    FYI I didn’t understand what you said, you should put more punctuation, I’m sorry that I didn’t help, but don’t suicide, that’s not cool. You will find that life is quite enjoyable.

22. slipknotbabe76, July 1, 2010:

    next time your mom does this, just tell her exactly how you feel even if shes walking away
    yell it at her if you have to and tell her how you feel and that your contemplating suicide.

23. jAiMiE :], July 1, 2010:

    NO!! i have a step dad who sometimes is a complete asa but then sometimes is nice. We would get into fights and my mother would always yell at me. dont do this to yourself. cause other people are going through worse. at least you dont get beat or raped but scott. other people do get beat and they have a worse life than you. take my advise. please. my step dad is sometimes and ass and i cant even go take a shower without her saying im doing something bad with a guy. so stop.

24. fea niko, July 1, 2010:

    if your ready your ready just know that it is not gods will for you to commit suicide your time hasent come yet stress is apart of life all you gotta do is keep away from the people that give you stress…

25. nick canon, July 1, 2010:

    don’t worry everything will be fine…….jus pls dont kill urself…

26. Melani, July 1, 2010:

    Ok, well your mom probably is very stressed about her current relationships. Does your mom really swear at home? Wow…I don’t have a mom that swore, lucky me but, enough about me. Um…well…your mom is being somewhat immature about saying that “Scott’s getting tired of this.” Is your brother old enough to make soup himself? If he is, just get him to do it. If not then just say, “I’m busy at the moment, I’ll make it later.” This may make her more annoyed or ask you again but just continue with it. Since you didn’t take any dinner just ask your mom to ask another person to make it.

27. dpestc@sbcglobal.net, July 1, 2010:

    Just hand in there, it will be over before you know it. You will be old enough later to make your own decisions later. Just stop complaining and you will get along with her better. Ask one of your friends if you can talk to their moms and get advise. Apparently your mom doesn’t have time for you right know. Give it a while and she will come around. Try not to get down on her are yourself.

28. pocketfullofsunshine73, July 1, 2010:

    listen, things will get better. just give it some time. feel free to email me i will answer you or just listen. Some day moms are just under so much stress… i am sure she will say i am sorry. good luck.Ending your life would never be the answer. I am sorry you are having such a hard time. LIfe is often so un fair. Smile you are beautiful anf you have your whole life ahead.

29. Mrs. Jae, July 1, 2010:

    Please don’t think this way. Call the crisis hot line and talk to someone now. They will be able to talk to you and find a way to handle this kind of problem.

    As for your Mom, she may not realize how sad she’s making you and I hope she opens her eyes soon.

    I’m sorry you are going through this alone but you don’t need to.
    Make the call. Please.

    I sincerely and genuinely wish you the best.

30. Francie R, July 1, 2010:

    You know, once you are older, and have moved out of the house, arguements you had with your mom won’t matter anymore. You have your whole life ahead of you! This probably wasn’t the best time to talk to your mom. Why don’t you ask her your quesions when Scott is not there? This is not something to commit suicide over. You know that suicide is cowardly, so don’t do it! Trust me, you will get over it, and learn to love life. If you are feeling unloved, talk it out with a good friend. If you are depressed, than you need to try some anti-depressants. And, if you commit suicide, even though I don’t know you, you will be letting me down, because I am trying to stop a suicide and I would feel horrible if I was unsuccesful. So do us all a favor and wait it out. Life is for living.

31. Teagan, July 1, 2010:

    ok whatever you do, dont kill your self! killing yourself only really makes it worse! your mom loves you, but i dont know what her deal is. Tonight before you go to bed, pray to God and ask him to help you get through this. Im here for you, just dont kill your self, and really pray tonight before you go to bed, if you dont know how to pray, just do something like this.
    Dear heavenly father,
    i know your watching me and looking out for me, but i dont know what to do. Tell him about your problem and then ask him to help you. tell him that you are getting very close to killing your self because of all the stress this is causing you.
    In jesus’ name i pray amen…. and thats all just ask him for help and he will help you, but you have to believe in him!

32. grania_3, July 1, 2010:

    First of all, suicide isn’t a solution. Don’t even go there. Don’t even joke about it or mention it.

    It sounds like you can’t communicate with your mom at all but you both have problems. You’re acting your age and copping an attitude. She has other children to take care of besides you and your attitude isn’t making it easier. Unfortunately, she brought a guy into the picture and seems to want to put him first which is really pathetic.

    This whole soup thing…why are you complaining about being asked to make your brother some more when you were the one who decided you didn’t want to eat? It makes no sense. She’s asking you to help her out. If you don’t have a job, she most likely pays for you, your brothers and all living expenses. Her house, her rules. The least you could do is be grateful and respectful to her.

    If she doesn’t have time to talk to you then talk to a counselor, your friends, your doctor, a neighbor or family member. Or you can sit her down and talk to her calmly about things.

33. Take My C????? It's Tasty™, July 1, 2010:

    You are experiencing normal growing up i am afraid, don’t commit suicide this isn’t how your life will always be, you are 13 , soon you will be on your own living it up and having a great time…hold your head high and just walk away when situations like this happen, things do get better!

    =D

34. Brianna B, July 1, 2010:

    1-800-273 TALK
    1-800-SUICIDE

    U may be in a bad situation but there are people that are in worse ones be thank full that u have wat u have and make the best of it things will get better in time. if they don t try talking to a friend or get help.

35. Beowulf1964, July 1, 2010:

    Titanic, you’re on the right track, but I think she needs a little bit more than that. He’s right- life is better to live than to waste. It sounds to me as if your mother misunderstood what you said when you said you wanted soup for dinner, and when you said that you had a lot of homework and stuff to do, she took that as “I’m angry at you for not making me my soup so I’m going to argue with my mom and disrespect her because I didn’t get my way.” I’m not saying that this is how you meant it, but this is most likely how she took it.
    When you asked if you could talk to her, she probably had just been complaining to her boyfriend about how “you don’t show her respect” and, even though it’s not the main factor, pride also made her ask that hurtful question; but the main motivation behind the hurt that she was trying to inflict upon you is “you hurt me, so now I want to hurt you back.” She’s really asking you why you don’t respect her, because from her position, it sounds like you’re trying to usurp her authority.
    What needs to happen is a heart-to-heart between you and your mom; not about “woman things” or the weather, but about how much you love and respect your mom, even though it may seem to you like you hate her. If you show her that you love her and respect her, things will loosen up and you will have an even better relationship with her and her boyfriend than you did before.
    One thing to avoid, though, is when apologizing, do NOT say “I’m sorry, but you really…” or something, because this will simply start a fight and NOTHING will have been accomplished, but your mom will become even more firm in her belief (incorrect as it may be) that you don’t respect her.
    Good luck

    P.S.–A little prayer never goes amiss, either

36. Bear, July 1, 2010:

    Take this letter to your School Counselor for help with dealing with these trying times.

37. all_disp, July 1, 2010:

    You sound like a very smart young lady and I am very sure, because you are asking for help, you do not want to kill yourself. Sometimes we parents are so mixed up in our own “things” we forget our children aren’t really grown up just because they look and act like one. I know it is not fair, but we are human. I hope you have someone who you can open up to about your feelings. Someone who will listen without just seeing your side of things but can help you balance out what you are feeling. You are at a very confusing age right now, I know, and you should be careful of people who will jump on the band wagon of “bashing” your mom when you are just really frustrated. Things will work out for you, I am sure.

38. Pachirisu, July 1, 2010:

    Talk to your school counselor. It should make a private meeting so u to can talk together with it(counselor)
    Try talking with her when u both are alone, he has to leave for something, or you and your mom can meet at a mall. Tell her how u feel.

    All of this happend once, so maybe it was just a little bad day.

39. bigfeet6, July 1, 2010:

    ok clam down sweety. i’m going through the same thing kinda. just try your hardest to talk to your dad about this problem!

40. der_grosse_e, July 1, 2010:

    Please don’t think about killing yourself. Your problems at home seem overwhelming. Theses problems will pass with time. In 5 years you can do whatever you want. Even if you live 100 years it’s a very short time. You will be dead forever so why cut off your young life? Your life is stressfull but in a few short years you’ll be able to have a lot more control. 10 years from now you will still see it was a shitty life but it will hurt you less.

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