1. Xcalibur, July 2, 2010:

   there is NEVER a good excuse to kill yourself or even think about it! Just because you don’t have a girlfriend! grow-up and quit being selfish. There are way more important things than that in life. My brother is 24 and has never had a girlfriend nor had sex and he is perfectly fine and happy…he says he will fall in love then he will have sex, etc. I dont think it is ever ok to kill yourself not even if your starving or if you have been raped or if you steal…forgive and move on. Get a hobby. Travel. Be brave and ask a girl out, even if you keep getting rejected keep on doing it. Never ever give up..even if your 40 years old. Get a new job, or a better job. Move somewhere else, or out of the country…I do not ever feel sorry for those who kill themselves…that is so sorry & stupid. There are soooo many people out there who have it WAY worse and you just need to grow up and get a life! I know this because my brother was like that at 18 and I told him exactly this that i am telling you and he has moved on. no girlfriend yet but he is happy and living life and still looking for a girl. email me if you want to chat =)

2. ASYLUM ALYCE, July 2, 2010:

   -_- please, quit whining.
   your ONLY 20. you have like at least 50 more years to live.
   a life is more than just dating and sex.
   do you know how you sound?
   “blah blah blah, im so alone, im always going to be alone, so i must die” get a hobby, look towards other things in life and you’ll evenually find a girl, you could make an intenet dating profile is you want.

3. sarahp, July 2, 2010:

   i would have sex with u u seem nice and i like guys like u cuz im “”" weird “”".too ..ps im really hot !!! no reason to get suicidal though(dont like that part) nah suicide is last resort not even bums do it…

4. Maria, July 2, 2010:

   Because not having a girlfriend is NOT the end of the world. Some guys are 30 and still virgins! You’re still young so relax. If you talk to girls better online then that’s the way to go. Work on your self-confidence. Having that syndrome shouldn’t stop you. If you know that that’s the problem, then fight it. Don’t let it defeat you and ruin your chances in having a long and happy life.

5. Laurie M, July 2, 2010:

   There is someone for everyone. My husband had a hard time with women too and he thought he would never have a decent girlfriend let alone be married. Then bomb I was there. You still have a long life ahead of you and things happen quickly. One day to the next. If you commited suicide you would be missing out on what is to come. Try focusing on your career and ambitions. When you are not looking is when things come out of no where. Most women do not btoher with things you may think. They want a man that loves them, is honest to them, and shows them respect.

6. kassag123, July 2, 2010:

   Suicide is just not a reason to deal with any problem…
   yeah..life sucks sometimes and it hard and we don’t always get what we want when we want it but suicide is the easy way out ! Leaving the people who love you to deal with your baggage !
   So you have to work hard !! More reason to be creative !

   See a better question …
   ” Hey, ladies I am very shy and don’y know how to approach you, Can you give me some tips… Be gentle, I am really shy”

   You would get a ton of responses !

   As far as Asperger… there is someone for someone so stop with that !!!

   Now post another question that is a little more goal oriented

   
   ~Peace~

7. Rotten_Nana, July 2, 2010:

   u’ll never have a chance to have sex if u kill urself

8. MM, July 2, 2010:

   Well, for a starter, girls are not the be-all and end-all of existence. (Hard to admit, but there you go.) You’ve got a family that loves you, other people in your life who would miss you if you were gone, a career ahead of you, and hobbies and interests to pursue. That’s a lot to throw away over something that might not even be as great as you’ve built it up to be in your head, especially if you’re just hoping for any old girl to pay attention to you. (Trust me, high school relationships are usually more drama than fun for just this reason.)

   Secondly, you’re 20. Assuming an average lifespan, that means you’ve got another 60-65 years left to connect with someone. It’d be stupid to give up now, especially when you’re likely to be more appreciated by the girls who are ignoring you now as they mature.

   If you’re really serious about ending it, go seek help from a professional or a hotline, and not Yahoo. But I honestly think you know better than to do anything that permanent over a momentary fit of discouragement. I hope so, anyway.

9. ??? Music<3, July 2, 2010:

   don’t give up, you will find that girls someday and what’s wrong with being a virgin at 20… i’m waiting until i get married, on my wedding night and that won’t be until i’m at least 23 years old. just be paitent, my aunts never been married and never had sex and she’s 52. you will find a girl for you someday, until then don’t give up

10. Kettitude, July 2, 2010:

    For starters, its a learning disorder that more than fifth of all get out of after they hit 20s. It is manageable and controllable. Yes, one needs high level of internal commitment to change but what doesn’t? Just to die now and giving up on medical faculty is not good.
    Second, you can convey really well on line judging from your question. Really well. You might be looking for sex on the outside but that is pure peer pressure. We live in a western world where sex and love are currency. In rest of the world, boys and girls study, get a job and then start about relationship. And studies consistently show their life satisfaction and happiness higher than ours.
    Finally, very very few people in this chaotic and fake society have insight left. It is all outward, – get a gf, have sex because we must, gotta have a 6 pack or breast implant and so on..
    But some are blessed with insight. They can get above these things and look inside to find their true talent. May be you have a poet or a writer in you, who knows?
    Contrary to whatever religion tells us, we are not going to be born again. So, why miss a chance. However it is, its still your life and still the biggest jackpot that you have ever won.
    Fu*k the disappointment and you will find something and someone amazing.

11. Virendra, July 2, 2010:

    I’m 36 and never had a girlfriend in my life. I was often the odd-one-out at school and in the family. I also been diagnosed with Specific Learning Difference, which has affected every aspect of my life.

12. killerwhalesrule19, July 2, 2010:

    because girls aren’t really a good reason to end your life. Why are you stressing on this now? Look, I remember trying to get in contact with one of my friends I met at muhlenberg Hospital named Heather Dehart. One day I called her up and got her mother. I asked if her daughter is available, and she told me she’s not allowed to talk to her, and I asked her why. She just said, because I said so, and I got really mad. So, I told her, what if I try to commit suicide just to let you allow me to talk to her, and then I slammed the phone down. Next minute, some helpline called me and told me that Heather’s mother called them and told them what I said, and they were this close from telling my parents or transporting me into a hospital. But I pleaded with them not to, and I told them that I had 11 weeks of help. They decided to just give me a warning, and told me that killing yourself isn’t the answer to everything. What if you were looking for a job, and almost every single business area doesn’t hire you, but one place gives you an interview. During the interview, they come to a conclusion that you’re not titled for the job they’re looking for. Do you expect a job company to hire you if you threaten to stick a knife in your throat and say, “if you don’t hire me for this position, I’m going to kill myself and then make it look like you guys did it. Therefore, the police will have to shut down your company.” ? Society isn’t like that.

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