1. sharkind, November 26, 2009:

   Your question is a real call for help. Don’t you realize there are many of people that would of loved to live. Many of our Men and Women of Military are just a few. Then a problem arises, that isn’t life or death issue. Yet, you want the easy, unforgivable sin, way out. Words spoken have power.

2. ~Jessica, November 26, 2009:

   You need to seek professional help immediately! Don’t take your life over some stupid woman. I know you are hurting but you can get through it.

3. shayisal…, November 26, 2009:

   please please dont do this i just suffered the worst break up of my life and i had some suicidal thoughts i rode through it and its hard for me now to contimplate that i let anyone disturb me so much that i would contimplate not wanting to live dont let any one rob y0u including your self of the gift of life that is so full of wonders when was the last time you tasted choclate had sushi with friends felt the sand benieth your feet watched the sun rist held a baby took a nap sneezed laughed at a great comedy felt the base of music and lights flash through your closed eyes as you danced with recless abandon till all hours of the night when was the last time you sipped a good red wine felt the joy of volinteering fed a hungary person got in the car or on a plane to see a part of the world you have never seen tried painting or looked at the beauty of the master de vinches work when was the last time you saw your friends and family and thought about how much they loved you or sat and meditated on how God has something suprising and wonderful around the corner for you when do you really want to give all that up because a woman gave you great pain you could be helping the children in the middle east that are with out parents or the ones here too much to live for i am not going to tell you how to die just how to live

4. shayisal…, November 26, 2009:

   Don’t commit suicide, leave her. Gather evidence of the affair and file for divorce and hang the whole thing on her. I hope you don’t have kids because if you kill your self they will always blame themselves for it and you CAN’T do that to children.
   If you need info on Divorce I know a very good info site:
   http://www.utahparentsundersiege.com
   Take a look.

5. shayisal…, November 26, 2009:

   are you serious? you need to go to an emergency room at a hospital immediately if you are this suicidal. they will help you.

6. xhunter, November 26, 2009:

   I agree with everyone else. Please don’t hurt yourself. Get some advice from the ER or someone you can trust. Its not worth hurting yourself.

7. KokoCuti, November 26, 2009:

   You need to wake up and realize killing yourself is DEFINITELY not the answer here.
   The answer is to move on and find someone that will appreciate you and love you the way you deserve.
   I’ve been there and I’m soo happy I chose life, life is what you make it and you can make it whatever you want, that is what is so great about this wonderful country, we can make our life the way we won’t.
   If there are children involve please consider them as an important prospect in this and think of them, don’t be selfish, they need you.

8. dancfan, November 26, 2009:

   I’m sorry to hear that. But please remember, there are tons of women out there who wouldn’t do that and would be a good wife. Don’t give up on your life!

9. eric_the, November 26, 2009:

   That is not the answer to your problem. Get a divorce and make yourself happy. There really good women out here, I know I’m one of them. Get some counseling you can and will get through this. Please stop and think, doing this will only hurt more people, I’m sure you have family and friends why give that up for her. She is the one who is in the wrong, so get rid of the problem. God Bless.

10. EllisFan, November 26, 2009:

    best plan is to move on with your life….. no pain and so much to gain.

11. Pencil, November 26, 2009:

    im pretty sure that you are a person that has alot of people that care and love you…. dont do anything dumb for some that did something like that to you ,,, I would think before doing something like that ,,, dont give that person the chance of getting the best of you please,,, for each tear and sad thought you have GOD will send you someone special that will make up all those tears into happines,,,,

12. LC, November 26, 2009:

    If it’s a choice between death and divorce, choose divorce. Throw her out, go to craigslist.com and find a new life.

13. Cookie On My Mind, November 26, 2009:

    Sharkando: Listen to me my friend. I’ve been down that road, there are other ways to get over this. You’d better think about calling a “hotline” for help, anyone even if you walk into a ER and tell them what’s wrong.
    Do not stay alone under these conditions. Call a relative, a priest, someone you can trust.
    You will get over her with time. I’ve been there, it doesn’t work and when I look back on it, I wonder why i thought that way.
    Take care now.

14. Sexy-n-H, November 26, 2009:

    no no no no no no no don’t do it there are bigger fish to chase/ Just file for divorce and find someone who really loves you for who you are. Trust me you’ll find someone. Then she will know what she’s missing and beg for you back. Also remember god ahas everthing in hand and suicide is a gateway to hell.trust me I’ve been here before with the love situation and i also have found someoone better

15. purple_c, November 26, 2009:

    There are 3 billion women on this planet and surely one of them is the right girl for you!

16. Airforce, November 26, 2009:

    She’s not worth killing yourself over. Get a divorce.

17. Brian, November 26, 2009:

    I wouldn’t let ur wife win! There are so many woman out there! I wouldn’t wait any longer if I was you to look for someone who will love you! Everyone needs to be loved and you deserve it. Then after you find her the sex part will come. 7 years isn’t that long to be married. Maybe you can find a lady that you could be married to for a lot longer. Remember take things day by day…May God bless you!

18. cowboydo, November 26, 2009:

    Leave her, she’s not good wife for you.
    DON’T DO SILLY THING LIKE THAT!!!!!
    There are many women/girls those are better than your wife.

19. cookster 360, November 26, 2009:

    first of all, you’re better than that. Second of all, your life is worth more than a quick snuffing out. Yes, your wife cheated on you, hoewever, think about it this way…if she is the one doing the cheating and youre the one waiting for her to come back, this should tell you about her character! She is obviously a mean, cold-hearted woman who has no regard for your feelings! Just because she cheated doesn’t mean you’re worthless and need to kill yourself. It means that you fell in love with the wrong woman. The hardest thing you’ll ever do is go to a counselor, but you need to try it for a few months and see if it helps. You need to learn to love yourself and respect yourself. Don’t depend on someone else to love you. When you love and respect yourself, the perfect person will come into your life. You are obviously a sensitive, caring person, and that right there is worth loving. Don’t focus on her anymore, get yourself some guidance and focus on getting you better, good things will come back into your life. Let her go, she’s not worthy of you.

20. mimi22, November 26, 2009:

    You need to find the strength to find help for yourself. Suicide is never the answer for you, the one you want to effect, and your family and friends. Your wife seems to be absent of conscience, so your death will not impact her as you wish. It will traumatically effect the people who love and care for you. The pain will be with your friends and families. Instead of committing suicide, bury your old self and recreate yourself. Start a new life without the person or persons who causes you such pain. See your physician, clergy, or mental help professional. You can live without the pain and depression. You would be surprised to see the world from a different perspective.

21. gmconlan, November 26, 2009:

    That is not the answer. Life is to precious to just end it cause you don’t feel like going on. Take it from some one who has tried to commit suicide. Once your gone, what about all the people who really care about you, what about their feelings. I feel that’s just not the answer. F*ck her! Let her go if she wants to. Go out and find some new pussy. Hell you said 7 years so I know you ready to burst, so go out and find some one who will care for you the way you want them to. There are plenty of women (and pussy) in the world so don’t let your d*ck revolve around just one. Hope that helps.

22. LeeLynn, November 27, 2009:

    dont kill your self just go find you another person to be with thats all

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