Well the reason I am asking this question is because, I have a friend. That his girlfriend broke up with him not that long ago. And they have been together for awhile now. And he really loved her and now he is in the hospital cause he tried to commit suicide over her. Would someone explain to me why he would do something so horrible like that?

i am going through so much stress i feel like suicide is the only way i i just keep screwing my life up trying to make it better

This long and deep recession has produced several tragic headline stories. I can’t remember so many homocide-suicides involving so many people as I’ve read? about over the last 6-12 months. Why must a man, the bread winner, kill his wife and his children,a nd then himself? Misery loves company? I guess any form of suicide is difficult to comprehend; however, the suicide of David Kellermann will be “front page” for some time.?

Everyone has to wonder, what’s up with Freddie Mac? Is there much more than we already know?

The Fairfax County police responded to a 911-call at 4:48 a.m. at the suburban Virginia home Kellermann shared with his wife Donna and five-year-old daughter Grace. The police would not release the exact cause of death, but spokesman Eddy Azcarate said Kellermann’s body was found in the basement. At least David only took his own life. But why? What could be so bad to cause someone to take their own life?

Daivd had what appeared to be a good life.

Kellermann, 41, lived in Hunter Mill Estates, a well-off neighborhood of large single-family homes with manicured lawns. County records show Kellermann’s home is worth about $900,000. Paul Unger, who lives across the street from the Kellermanns, called the family a “solid, salt-of-the-earth kind of family” that hosted the neighborhood’s Halloween party. “He was just a nice guy … You cannot imagine what kind of pressures he must have been under,” Unger said.

Solid family?

Some neighbors said Kellermann had lost a noticeable amount of weight under the strain of the job, and some said they suggested to him he should quit to avoid the stress. The neighbors did not want to be quoted by name because they didn’t want to upset the family. Is making millions worth the trade-off?

Kellermann’s death is the latest in a string of blows to Freddie Mac, which owns or guarantees about 13 million mortgages and us the No. 2 mortgage finance company after sibling Fannie Mae. The company has been criticized for financing risky mortgage loans that fueled the real estate bubble, and its first government-appointed CEO, David Moffett, resigned last month after six months on the job.

As the company’s financial chief, Kellermann was working on the company’s first quarter financial report, due at the end of May, with federal regulators closely overseeing the company’s books and signing off on major decisions.

That relationship has been tense at times. Freddie Mac executives recently battled with federal regulators over whether to disclose potential losses on mortgage securities tied to the Obama administration’s housing plan, said a person familiar with the deliberations who was not authorized to discuss the matter publicly. Federal prosecutors in Virginia have been investigating Freddie Mac’s business practices.

I am sure there’s more to come and it can’t be good.

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If you’re struggling to achieve success then it may be because you haven’t identified the reason why you want to achieve success, why you want to achieve a particular goal. When you discover this it will become a compelling motive that drives you forward and gives you the energy to attract the people, resources and opportunities you need in your life to achieve your desired goal.

Let me give you an example. I was recently listening to Graham White interview, Noah St John of The Success Clinic, Inc. on the topic of “Permission to Succeed”. Now Graham White is the former head coach of North America’s largest training company and during this candid interview he said something quite shocking. He said there was a time in his life that he had been close to committing suicide but one thing prevented him from taking his own life. When he remembered that he had a new baby daughter he realised that taking his own life was no longer an option.

Let take another example. You may desperately want to get back into shape but instead of exercising and eating healthily you scoff junk food, or eat cakes, biscuits, ice cream and the like in excess and you flake out in front of the television for hours on end every day. Then you develop a life-threatening illness and the doctor says to you that if you want to live you have to lose weight and improve your fitness. You now have your reason why. It’s a matter of life or death and you do what it takes to regain your health.

Perhaps your company is floundering and if you don’t do something drastic it will fold. The truth is that you love the work that you are doing. You just haven’t found a way to make it profitable because you have been deluding yourself. You have forgotten that no matter how much you love doing something a business must be profitable if it is to survive. You have been neglecting critical aspects of finance. You have not been addressing the issue of marketing and you know that some of your employees are not pulling their weight and yet you have procrastinated in effectively dealing with this issue. It may even be that you have too many employees for your current operations. Whatever the reasons for the demise of your business, when you recognise that if you let your business run into the ground you will not have a vehicle to express what you love doing, you will have a compelling reason to knock your business into shape.

In each case I have described here it isn’t that you don’t know what to do or how to do it. By the latter, I don’t mean that you necessarily know all the minute details of what you have to do to achieve the results that you desire, but if you don’t, you can surely find someone who does know. In each case, it seemed easier initially to simply drift along, ignoring your true calling and shying away from stepping up to the plate and being the person you were meant to be in this world. When you found a compelling enough reason why to change you were galvanised into action.

However, there’s another piece to the puzzle. You see what I have described are external motivating factors and while they can help you overcome obstacles you may be experiencing, to make those significant changes in your life, you will still be working to correct symptoms. You will not be addressing the underlying factor that resulted in you being in your current situation in the first place.

White also said that while acting as a business consultant that he would assist business owners who were on the brink of declaring bankruptcy and get them back on their feet again only to find that 6-18 months later some owners had run their company back into the ground again. St John explained this by saying that he had shown the business owners what to do but he hadn’t helped them uncover their why.

To be truly effective you have to get at the root cause which is an internal factor. This is also another “why” and it is the biggest why of all. It answers the question of the purpose of your existence on this earth. When you can correlate external motivating factors such as the love for your family, your desire for life, the love for the work you are doing with why you are here on this earth then you become unstoppable.

“Most people do not know why they are here on earth. When you don’t know why you’re here on earth that can cause feelings that can range from anywhere from just mild frustration to a general sense of hopelessness to feelings of suicide, to actually taking your own life.”

Noah St John, The Success Clinic, Inc.

Just look at what you are able to achieve when you have a strong external motivating factor. Even if you have only experienced this for a brief time, notice how differently people respond to you when you are on purpose. They either scramble to help you or they move clear out of your way. Yet cognitive scientists have proven that only 5% of our decisions are on a conscious level. This means that a whooping 95% of our decisions are made on the subconscious level. Can you now see what awesome firepower you have at your disposal when you can align your internal with your external “why tos”?

“You can have all the ‘how tos’ of success but if you have more ‘why not tos’, even if those ‘why not tos’ exist on the subconscious level, you simply won’t allow yourself to succeed to your full capacity no matter how many ‘how tos’ of success you know.”

Noah St John, The Success Clinic, Inc.

It may be a challenge to discover what your purpose is in life or it may be very simple. You see the answer to that particular question is also inside. The real question is:

“Are you willing to go inside to unlock the secret to your success – your reason why?”

Your day has been bad. You had a very bad nightmare the previous night and peed in your own bed and are late for your appointment.

How terrible a morning it was being and then there is an itch in your right arm. You look for the itchy spot and scratch it and relieve your self.

After that, there are itches in your navel, left knee, right elbow, your butt and your back. There are itches in every part of your body. Oh god! Every part of your body is on fire!

It is indeed a situation that is horrible. If this has happened before to you, you must be having bed bug infestations in your room or your bed.

As they can cause a lot of discomfort and inconvenience, you will be eager in figuring ways to kill the bed bugs and if possible, torture them to death.

Getting to know the target for killing the bed bugs:

First of all you must not act on impulse and kill them immediately. You must gather knowledge about a few facts and figures about bed bugs.

For starters, it will suffice if it is known that they are insects. They are very tiny, but can grow to about a quarter of an inch when they are healthy and fully mature. This makes you to wish to kill them in an even more gruesome way.

They are very tiny and don’t have wings. Hence, if you are lucky, you may see them crawling to their thriving places. It is indeed good that they don’t have wings. Otherwise, they would have invaded complete cities at a pace unimaginable. It will be harder to terminate their existence too.

Some facts that will fuel your emotions for killing them are given below.

o they are very persistent and even if a batch of bugs is exterminated from your house, it is highly likely that another batch will take their place.

o They not only hide in the tiniest of cracks and crevices on the wall, floors, furniture and beds, but also live in them. So, if you have a possessive nature, try killing them faster.

o They are nocturnal, that is they are mostly inactive during the day and can be seen wandering and crawling during the night. That is the time in which they look for food and try sucking blood from the most unsuspecting victims which would be you. Murder them!

o They can live for a period, as long as one year without food. They can hide for that long a period so as to ensure that they survive.

o They are very good travelers as they thrive in luggage, suitcases and baggage. Hence, it is indeed possible that bed bug checks will detect the presence of bed bugs inside aircrafts, cruise ships, hotels, motels and even vehicles.

o In the whole of their span of life, the female bugs can actually lay eggs thrice and each time they lay about three hundred eggs. They populate rapidly, so try killing them and thereby reduce their population.

o The eggs of bed bugs can hatch within ten days, which is too fast. They multiply and spread as rapidly as rabbits and when there is a bed bug killing spree, a very small number is reduced. So make sure you make a noticeable dent in their population by killing quite a lot of them, next time you go on a bed bug killing spree.

Doing the action of exterminating bed bugs:

After gaining knowledge about the little things about bed bugs, you can finally start killing the bed bugs.

No one will say that killing bed bugs is or will be easy. Extermination of bedbugs will always be a very difficult task as discovering their habitats and other hiding places is as easy as going to the moon.

One of the best ways in which bed bugs can be killed is by not doing it yourself. Look for professional pest controllers, namely, triggermen or assassins in the bed bugs’ lingo.

Professionals are much more knowledgeable than you in what task is at hand and have at their disposal, more efficient weapons against bed bugs.

“Thou shalt not kill” is a biblical verse. However, when it is killing of bed bugs, well there are exceptions in everything, right?