i know that it is the other way around but i need to defend that man do commit suicide more than woman in our debate class.
please i need a good reason to explain that man do commit suice than woman. you can also give me links about the topic. Thank you.
p.s. please if ure just going to say crap things like “I dont know”. forget about it.

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You are about to commit suicide. What is the source of your pain? Why do you wish it to end it in this way? When you are feeling pain you have alternatives. When you are searching for answers there are many answers.What do you call a person who intentionally kills himself or herself? Loser is not a bad word for this person loses all that he has worked to build in this life.

Your karma is dependent upon you finishing that which you started. Thus life must begin and end; let the beginning be as a model for the end of this life, something of joy and happiness. When you let your pain dominate you then you allow this pain to cause an untimely misery. Your death takes place in unhappiness, unlike your birth.

When you pass from one stage of life to another then you are allowing a natural process. When you wilfully take your own life then the forces that caused your birth, which intended you to thrive, are cheated of their completion.

When you are considering suicide then you are not listening to your own creation. Whatever circumstances caused you to feel this way can be circumvented or overcome through action on your part. Are you ruled by these circumstances? Take a close look at what they are for they are feeble compared the strength of your own essence.

Now take this time to find yourself, for it is you who are the master. You do not believe this. You think that you are a failure and that this is going to be your fate for the rest of your life. When you live you pass through many years. Are all of these years bad? Do all of these years merit killing yourself?

Take each moment for its own worth. Good moments are worthwhile holding onto.

You will always have some kind of pain. When you accept this then you will remember the good and keep the bad in its own place.

Remember that you are the master of destiny in your own life. Where possible make changes. When you can, go to another level and see the good that you have done.

Do not destroy that which was given freely. Your life has a value and purpose. Your despair will be your teacher as you rise above it.

When you are finished reading this then you will continue to find the best in yourself. Look for the good things that you have done. What has taken you to this point? Was it your actions or those of someone else? How do you see yourself in this picture? Look at the picture.

What is your role in seeing your own demise, your own end. Are you not inventing the reasons for which you might want to die? What do you want? I mean what do you really want? Find out for this is what saves you. When you have a clear vision then some of your despair will simply be less.

If this means changing how you see your life unfolding then so be it. Your path is always to learn and new directions are filled with new expectations.

Spend some time reading this over as you will have new insights into your life; you will find circumstances which you will urgently want to change.

Go ahead and be happy. Just allow yourself the freedom that simple happiness offers.

Let me give you one last advice. That is to let go, for you are holding. Forget, for you remember too intensely. Look elsewhere for happiness for where you are looking is a dark place. Find the good. Reject the bad as having had its say too often in your life. Listen to words that encourage, those who discourage you are not worthy of your listening. Give your power to your hope, let despair slide away. Be as one who has nothing, for nothing has everything. When in doubt have no expectations, then you will not be disappointed. Air and wind come and go. Then the wind must be on its way and you will be free of it.

Do not hold on to any thought which brings you down for these thoughts are not worthy of you. What is good will uplift, so if you are not uplifted by someones? words then they are not worthy.

When you create you do it with materials. Choose materials which work to build, reject materials which do not hold up. Therefore actions and words which are inferior will tear you down and cause you to think of suicide. Those who tear you down are not worthy.

When you are looking for love then first see if that person stands up to our measure. How do they speak? Are their actions worthy. Do they build or destroy. Do they make you feel better or worse.

Love is the great creator. Someone who loves creates and is worthy. Someone who wants and does not love is certainly not a worthy person. If someone close to you is always critical then do not listen for this one has a personal agenda and is not worthy.

Surround yourself with loving individuals. If someone pretends to love you, yet is critical in any way, then this one is an imposter and does not know how to love. Those who love will build you as a creation. You will feel as if you are renewed in their presence. Love of others creates and nourishes.

Then remember that your life is a creation. Choose only loving beings as your friends.

Be as one who is filled with love. For when you love others then you will receive love in return. When love falls on darkness it will not reflect, but love that falls on a loving person will reflect and go on to nurture both you and others. So be wary.

The creator wishes you to be an instrument of loving kindness. So find those worthy individuals. Allow the love of the creator to pass through you and reach them.

When you do this then you will fulfil your life?s purpose, which is to love.

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A Time to Kill

By Minh Pham, Founder, Walking on Water, 501c Non Profit

www.LiveYourDreamLifeRetreat.com

It?s a New Year and once and for all, it’s time to kill your fears for good! Fear is the number one killer of your dreams and happiness and studies show that fear can be linked to many known diseases, ailments, stress, war and lives!

I just read an article in Net Worth Magazine (Jan 2009) that a man (a successful broker) killed his family and then himself because he lost a fortune in the stock market. The root cause of his anger was ‘fear.’ Of not having enough, of not living up to other people’s standards, fear of failure, fear of ridicule, and so many other reasons caused by nothing other than fear related root causes.

Traditional Rah*Rah*Motivational Techniques Don’t Work

They simply offer temporary relief. You’re not going to change the world. The external fears will keep coming — time and money pressures, relationship and career challenges, traffic, health concerns, environmental fears, separation from the easy clarity of your intuition or direct-knowing, alienation from your essential nature.

Motivational techniques only deal with relieving the immediate symptoms of fear. They can’t resolve the fear reactions that keep you constantly under pressure. They can’t resolve the old fears that you have stored in your body. Traditional fear management techniques don’t get to the root of the problem — your automatic internal reactions to those external pressures and challenges.

Here’s how deep the fear goes in you . . .

Very early in our lives you (family, environment, childhood and adult learning, society, culture, etc.) created protective strategies to make sure that you were OK in the world. The trouble is that you become so identified with the strategy, IT began to run YOU. You may not even notice how programmed you’ve become. It is difficult to see oneself. But others see us and our fears more clearly. By disconnecting the automatic nature of your thinking and behavior is key to resolving fear once and for all.

How can you make such a basic shift your way of being?

You likely have experienced success in some domains of your life – perhaps in many domains. You have created at least some of the things that you want. However, much of what you have accomplished thus far has probably been at a HUGE cost. And your attention is probably on the areas of your life where there is no fulfillment. Pushing through fear does not make fear go away. Pushing through is hard work and simply pushes the fear underground – under the radar, where they are usually stored in your body.

If you are able to be living in ?stillness,? this can produce a quiet mind full of inner peace, joy and harmony and a body with youthful vitality and vibrant health. The negative effects of your automatic ?re-activeness? to life clears when you learn to let go into ?stillness,? into the quietness of the ?Now.? Happily, many people are recognizing the importance of stillness.

Eckhard Tolle (author, A New Earth) and Elizabeth Gilbert (author, Live, Love, Pray) — thanks to Oprah! — have made the importance of stillness a mainstream conversation.

We define ?stillness? simply as ?non-disturbance?, a place beyond the tension of your body, beyond the noise of your ego mind, beyond the contraction of your energy field. If you attend to ?stillness,? resourcefulness arises naturally. Your full potential and capacity is always there, “sourcing” everything while you are otherwise distracted. If you can get into ?stillness,? by a simple process of eliminating the noise, ‘killing the fear.’ You turn off the noise by letting go of contraction and resistance in your body and mind and with that, ?fear? can not exist there. It’s like a mouse when light shines on it, it has to find a ‘dark’ place to hide into (noise/negativity/pain/fear programming.)

You can learn these skills just like any other skill you learned. You can master these skills in due time (sometimes amazingly quickly) and you can transcend your experience of life from depletion and limitation to a deep experience of vitality, inner peace, and unlimited possibility.

It’s not as hard as it may sound. Of course you don’t know how to let go. Yet, with the right techniques and secrets and a strong intention, letting go is easy. It actually takes more energy to hold on than it does to let go. It helps to become aware of where and how you are holding on. It may be too amazing to believe, but there is a proven, reliable, predictable process that can lead you to know how to let go of the contraction that locks fear in place and allows it to build.

So know that anything is possible, just like reading this article is possible because you had to learn to read and you can learn to live a life of total freedom.

Total skill!

You have nothing to lose but everything to gain by just trying! I envision the shift that you can have is possible, because I?ve done it and if I can anybody can do it, (I?m simply ?no genius?) then you can too.

To your old death (of fear) and your new life of joy.

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There have been various stories in the news media of people being in heavy financial debt killing their families and then committing suicide. Or after being laid off or unemployed they start killing others and finish themselves.
Why can’t such people just file bankruptcy to get protection from creditors instead of going violent with guns?