i will never understand this, boyfriend and girlfriend relationship stay and go, it happens all around the world, and yet when they break up they always go run in the corner and cry their heart out as if its something to really die over. you girls cry so bad and cut yourselves while your ex is out having fun partying, MOVING ON with SOMEONE else while youre still stuck in the past crying over somebody whoes moved on and is NOT in the same state is you. wow that person is really worth the pain….

tell me why is it worth killing yourself over someone who has easily moved on and couldnt care less. OH WOW thats a good reason to kill yourself.

this is so irriatating “like OMG hes like gone! i like can’t go on living, like OMG gimme a knife so i can slit my throat!” PU-LEASE!!
Suzy my eyes are very open!! youre the dick.

was dumped my BF of 7 yeaars for a younger, prettier woman. me and my supposedly fiance never had sex due to him refusing an hiv test. then i noticed 2 purple lesions/blotches appear on his leg accompanying a huge red rash on his arm and feet with fever, vomit, and diareha. He siad the purple marks were from falling off his bike and a bebe gun shot when he was 10. 4 months later the marks never disappeared. he blamed my food for his flu like symptoms although i ate the same food and never got sick. then the last 9 months he had ginigivits and would bleed from his mouth for no reason so i never kissed him for like 2 years becuause he refused to brush his teeth. when he dumped me he told me i wasnt **** to him and he has a new girl. HOW DO I NOT BE JEALOUS OF THIS NEW GIRL THAT STOLE MY FIANCE FROM ME AND MY LIFE FROM ME? HOW DO I COPE WITH ALL THE LONLEY NIGHTS AND WEEKENDS AND SEE THE POSITIVE SIDE OUT OF THIS VERY DEPRESSING SAD SITUATION. I FEEL SO SUCIDAL LIKE I WANT TO JUST LAY DOWN AND DIE. AND BEING 35 I FEEL NO ONE WOULD WANT ME ANYWAY

My boyfriend and I have been together for the past 3 years.
Everything between us is so perfect it almost feels like a dream. He’s just amazing in every single way and we connect so perfectly that we have become very attached to each other.

The thing is, he plays football in our college’s football team and my best friend is a cheerleader so she knows him pretty well.

I have been very busy this past month studying for my exams and all that I could barely find enough time to see my own boyfriend.. and whenever he sees me, he’s always making jokes and funny comments.. he tends to be like that when I am going through exams period so I would lighten up and not be so stressed out.

After my exams were over, I finally met up with my so called best friend. I don’t know how she did it, but she told me how crazy she is about my boyfriend. She went on to say how she “confessed” it to him a couple of weeks ago. I was speechless… very upset, I couldn’t believe it.. then her exact words were, “oh don’t worry it’s not like he was responsive.. he just told me he’s in love with you and asked me not to bring this up to you because he didn’t want you to get upset especially since you had exams or whatever.”

I tried to be understanding by asking her how on earth her falling for my boyfriend has happened, she said, “you can’t explain it when 2 people are just made for each other.” I had, by that point, become VERY furious. Then she had the nerves to ask me when I was going to break up with him already because she ‘couldn’t take it anymore’ and if she didn’t have him soon she’ll ‘have no reason to live and is going to kill herself’

I was speechless again because she cried afterwards. I spoke to him about it and he said it was all act and reassured me that she wasn’t going to do anything. Although he did tell me to stay away from her and that she is not very sane, but I’m scared she might do it and I’m thinking of talking to her again. I don’t really know what’s the best thing to do, any suggestions?

I got kicked out of the military, but I got an honorable discharge after 5 years of service, then I moved in with my girlfriend of 4 years. She was a college student and her parents gave her money for school but I had bills and had trouble finding decent work, so she used a lot of her money to help me. We argued a lot about money and finally I moved home to FL to work with my Dad’s business, and I send her money every week. But now because she helped me she will not have enough money to pay her tuition, and may get kicked out of school. She waited to the last minute to tell me this and now she has to produce $6000 in one month. Her parents have money but she is too ashamed to ask them to help her and she wont do it no matter what. My fathers world is driven by money and he is a perfectionist, and in 5 years in the military, even in iraq, i have never felt as uncomfortable as when I am in a room with him. Me and my sister grew up hiding from him when he came home from work, because we knew he would be in a pissed off mood, and nobody in my life has yelled at me like he does. He is a workaholic and because i live here i am on call 24/7, we are working Saturdays and Sundays ALL DAY, ive done this many times before but the stress of being around him is the killer. Nothing I do is ever done right and he was a Vietnam Vet so me being a vet don’t mean shit to him. He makes me look stupid in front of customers and talks about me in my face with them standing there, treats me like i have never done anything in my life worthwhile. Even as a grown man being around him makes me feel like a little girl. Just today, I went to him with some ideas to smooth line our business and he starts yelling at me hardcore about some dog food plate that got spilled, a dog that he claimed he didnt want but let my sister buy because she is a spoiled bitch. Then he tells me to help him put some chairs together like it was nothing, and i did not even spill it. He also treats my mom like this. My sister is a spoiled brat who does nothing but cry and complain to get her way and give everyone attitude. My mom is a person who has had a hard life to the point that she assumes the worst about everything, if i lock up in my room a while she acts like I might be in there smoking crack. If i talk about stuff with her she just makes sure I know how disappointed she is with my current situation, and how she had such high hopes for me. I used to be a really social person, always had a group of friends, now they are all gone, in jail, or on drugs. The only person I talk to is my girlfriend and she gets mad if I don’t want to talk on the phone for 3 hours everyday. I’m so lonely its crazy, i cant even talk to my family. My girlfriend is Japanese so if she gets kicked out of school then she will have to go back to Japan, so then i REALLY wont have anyone to talk to. Im taking a muay thai class and met a few cool people but to make this money I will probably have to sell my car that I love, and then I wont even be able to escape from this house at all. If she gets kicked out of her school because of me there is no way I could live with this guilt. My life has no stability, every time i turn around its one crisis situation after the next, with no end in sight. The reason i joined the military was to get away from my family because they drove me insane, and in 5 years i can honestly say I never missed seeing them. please someone tell me what to do, i really want to end it all. I just cant take this anymore, i have spent the last year of my life everyday feeling like i want to die, hiding this feeling from others. Its affecting my health, i never used to get sick and now im sick all the time. The stress is too much to bear. Seems like every time i get enthusiasm to do something or work it out, something else cuts me down. please help me someone.

We were at a school dance the other night, and i got mad at him because he wouldn’t dance. So my favorite song was playing and my friends and i tried to get him to dance. All of of a sudden he just said, “were breaking up!” for no reason. I walked of and started crying and my best friend came up to me and said that he was trying to kill himeself, this made me cry harder. If anyone has any advice that would be great. i dont know what to do

from everything i’ve read it looks like women have it so easy in this world. Suicide doesnt even rank i nthe top ten reasons for female death. Women are rarely if ever truly alone. They can get a man anytime they want. they will never know what real lonelinesss is or the hurt of suicide. It seems like God created this woemn to not have to worry about being hurt, physically or emotionally. they seem invunerable to pain, have loads of friends and never are bothered by lose or grief. sometimes i wonder if they even have a full set of emotions. maybe they dont and are only half human or something. cause it seems like nothing bothers them. they put men down and call men weak who cry or have feelings. it seems like the only emotion women have is hate and feelings of superiority. How could a species evolve and one be so different fro the other in such a way. it is unfair and hurts. women do not have hearts it seems. suicide doesnt even exist in thier lives. such an easy life they have.
i always hear about how girls are more emotional but i just dont see it. If this were true then why are they so cold and only care about themselves? they dont have anything to worry about. Even in fights, they dont even bother to protect their privates, chest or anything. I guess its because they feel nothing and can not be hurt. Why men are told to never hit a girl i do not understand. women do not feel anything any how so how can they be hurt inside or out? They never show pain or hurt and suicide never happens in women. No one cares about men and sucide, if they did, women(mothers) and gf’s would be out always trying to raise awareness for men’s issues but they dont. cause they dont care. But men are always there for breast cancer and stuff like that. when was the last time you saw a women even talk about prostate cancer or anythign related to men? They dont care. just like i said, no Feelings but for their own.
From: Pinkopal21: …”I never had thoughts of committing suicide, because my life is very precious to me and you only live once! My world doesn’t evolve around anyone-especially a man! Besides, I have important things to do than to end my life over something so little! Life is too short for some drama, so there’s no need to put up with it!”

I think this proves my point very well. This scumbag expresses hate. how do you think it makes a man feel to hear this kind of garbage? But this is socially acceptable, yet if a man says a similar thing, he’s bad and wrong. All of the hurting people who feel depressed and you see how cold hearted this maggot is?? Proves me right! Women= No emotions
From: Jack73
“ARe you for real? I don’t agree at all. They go through a LOT more than you’re giving them credit for my friend. Try giving birth to a child. Or see how it feels to breastfeed and stay awake with a baby at odd hours of the night. There are a thousand examples I could use and I still wouldn’t have enough. Wake up buddy! ”

what about being born male and having come with that being blamed for every wrong inthe Word? How about that pain! how about being abused by women andhaving no one to talk to ever!!! And then getting mocked and put down for it! how about that pain!! how about living in a society that doesnt give a shit about mens feelings! how about that pain!! how about living alone for over 35 years and being judged for no reason always. How about that pain!!! To hell with the woman shit. At least they have chidren or someone to talk to to care. they arent put down everytime they express any feeling!!! men are hated, just hated. No one cares for them, no one
idont know, i just am not convinced that women have difficult lives. its all easy for them an society helps them much more than men. I wastold once by woman whose huband had protate cancer that most women walk out on their husbands at that time.she almost took joy in eventelling me that. like it was empowering. To me, it only tells me that women are heartless beings that may not even be fully human. who hate men and will do anything to hurt men even when a man is ill. look at how many women leave men who are i nthe middle of wars and such. thats so evil and worng but they do, cause they dont care. They only worship $$, degrees and power. that is what matters most to ALL women. an intelligent man is worthless unless he has $. look at some ofthe smartest men, geniuses actually, most are alone. this society hates men, especially intelligent men. it is not a place for men, it is anti-man
MEN SUFFER MUCH MORE THAN WOMEN AND ARE JUDGED FAR HARSHLY THAN WOMEN. WOMEN HAVE IT SO EASY IN LIFE.