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Voices From The Void (Mental Illness Song)Posted by admin
In Suicide
9Mar 10
(25) Comments Healing From the Heartbreak of SuicidePosted by admin
In Suicide
25Dec 09 Dear Jane, How can I forgive myself and my husband?s family when our faults contributed to the death of my son (to suicide)? I was fearful that my son would commit suicide. Because of this, in your view, did I get what I thought? (I guess I already know the answer, which is yes, but in a roundabout way – through not speaking my mind because I was afraid of being rejected/abandoned.) I am angry and resentful at family members for growing marijuana for profit/greed. (They are not poor). My son started out with marijuana. I forgive them intellectually but cannot as yet emotionally. Do you suggest discussing my feelings with them or let it be. I have had advice both ways. How to Stop Excuses From Killing your Dreams, Part 2Posted by admin
In Reviews
4Dec 09 Here?s how you can stop yourself from using excuses to kill your momentum using these three simple steps
STEP #1 – SWAT THE MAGGOT As soon as that excuse starts to wriggle into your mind just splat it BEFORE it turns into a fly and gains its own momentum to take over you. Replace it with a POWERFUL EXCUSE for why you WILL take action towards your goals.
STEP #2 – USE A MIRROR Shortcut to get freedom from problems/sadness……’Suicide’Posted by admin
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3Dec 09 ??????????? Suicde is nothing but a path followed by people who are feeble hearted and have shown towel in front of adverse conditions. Legally speaking suicide is an offence. By God’s grace if someone escapes clutches of grave then obviously he would be punished, but is there any punishment which would regenerate the desire to live again. Answer is clear ?No?.
???????????? If we? know the answer then it is important to know the reasons. Lost in the eternal darkness caused by innumerous societal questions and sorrow? that infirm mind inaccesible to even a small ray of light and he has no option none other than ……
???????????? Humans who once found it vulnerable to see even an animal distressed is now himself being churned in the eternal truth of life. Man was known to live his life for others but today he doesn’t even think of himself before ending himself. Have really words like humanity, love, culture become a myth? Unfulfilled desires and grief? are the prime reasons behind suicide. But grief is the consequence of our mistakes only. Then the question is why to err? If we avoid the cause itself why to worry about consequences? That might seem easy but it is human to err; hence we must remember one golden saying: ?humans are grocers, holding a b who have been provided with joys and sorrows. It depends on his skills how he sets balance between them by his deeds.?
???????????? While doing this we must not forget that as happiness is momentary so is sorrow. Life is full of crest and troughs which we have to go patiently. We often forget this and hence fall in the viscous circle of mistakes, sorrows, suicides.
??????????? I know it needs lots of guts to end one’s own life and it is not a job of feeble hearted to kill oneself without sympathising. It must really need lots of courage to stick to his decision. A man attempting suicide is not at all wrong, what is wrong is his way of thinking, his views, his ways. This might be fine for adults, but what about students, or roadside Romeo’s? These people who don’t even know how to tie their shoe-laces should commit suicide just because of mere failure in studies or love? Who should be held responsible for this? Lack of attention by parents, westernisation of Indian culture, movies and shows and its influence on tender young minds, these all would anyday top the list. One more reason could be society. Most of the people commit suicide not because they can’t face failure but because they find it difficult to deal with society after it.
???????????? Just consider a case occured year ago: A mother of two tried to commit suicide along with her two innocent children. Reason for her suicide was her husband ’s extra marital affair. She was worried how she would confront society? Or how it will affect her children’s future or how to give them the nectar of values? How to leave husband’s house and once again be a burden for parents and at the same time shield herself from taunts, evil thoughts of other people? These were some of the questions which were caused by society itself. So in such a situation ?It is better to burn out. Then by fade away?. This is what she must have thought and set herself on fire. The moral is simple? ?Society is alone responsible for suicides!!!!!!!?.
???????????? It seems to be perfect case of irony because society is not an alien concept nor are its members. It is formed by cumulative contribution of all its constituents like us. We all are the one’s who make society. Then the question arises is that is society made for winners? Don’t we have any place for those who are able to make it through.
???????????? ‘Live and let Live’
??????? If we accept these golden words then it would make life definitely a better asset. Society should take the responsibility of lending moral support to all of them.
?????????? ??Society however should not be considered as a sole reason. It also depends on our outlook.
It can be understood by this story:
?????????????? Once a man was trying to hang himself on a tree. But as luck would have it the branch couldn’t sustain its weight and breaks down. The man starts crying. Another man asks the reason for his crying. He replies ? I incurred havy losses in buissness, my family died in an accident and now when I am trying to embrace death even it is distancing itself from me. What a cruel fate I have born with? To this the man asks ?Is this the worst you have faced?? ?Yes indeed. Destiny can’t be more cruel to me?. Replied the man trying to commit suicide. To this the traveller said calmly ?Now that you have faced so much what will follow is surely going to be good because you have nothing to loose?.
? Teen Suicide: Warning Signs and How to Get the Right Treatment- From Dundee and Crystal Lake, ILPosted by admin
In Reasons
27Nov 09 In recent years, suicides among adolescents have increased dramatically. Each year thousands of teenagers commit suicide in the U.S. In fact, it is the third leading cause of death for kids, aged 15-to-24-years old, and the sixth leading cause of death for those who are 5-to-14-years old.
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