I need advice from real people..anyone. thanks

I was raised by a father that never allowed me to be myself, always control, never freedom, I never developed security. I spent most of my days with my family and relatives because i wasn’t allowed to play outside after 6pm even when i was 12yrs old. My dad was over protective to the extreme especially because i was their first child. I grew up missing on a lot of things and i was always frustrated with my life. I became rebelled against school, my parents basically everything! but being young and in middle school didn’t help so i gave in and diligently followed the rules again. Eventually i found a boyfried who didnt mind my parents (i always had to be home by 8-9pm even when i was 18) clubs? midnight? even talking on the phone late? not possible. I accepted my reality and i was happy, my bf was my getaway from everything but as the years went by he too became controlling. Im now 22yrs old and after 6yrs of being with my boyfriend idont know what to do! the idea of buying or renting a house and tying myself to someone scared me to death. I’ve postponed our engagement so many times, im scared to death. I’s rather have any kind of life except being in a house with little kids running around an a husband.. i’d rather be a fisherman and live in the sea or raise camels in the middle of the desert lol
My boyfriedn thinks im crazy when i talk about going to africa, helping people, opening an animal shelter, moving to another state, volunteering, joinning the army etc i constantly feel the need to get away, run, escape, do something different! but everybody thinks im a little crazy the say “thats for other kind of people” “you get want to go get your self killed right?” n i feel sooo sad, alone in this world…is there anyone else like me??? am i crazy?? should i get married and live the way i was raised. I love my boyfriend, i really do but he is the opposite of me he is vry similar to my dad and im suffocating. He agrees to what i say for fear of losing me but he doesnt have the *same passion or burning desire to do stuff* and he calls me crazy! what should i do???? what???? im soo sad. Is life worth living?

Ok, here it is,

First how DFCS got involved in our life is that my bf tried to commit suicide for reasons I will not state. After that, DFCS automatically came in calling him a threat to our baby girls life. He actually had to move back in with his mom because they deemed him unfit to live with us. *Sigh*. But now we are to the present. 2 months from today our baby girl passed of SIDS. (For those who don’t know, Suddend Infiant Death Syndrome, a.k.a. Crib Death) And we think that DFCS are out of our life. But now me and my husband decided to have another kid. I am now pregnant. My worry is DFCS. Can they just come up out the blue into our lives again without any reasons. Nothing is wrong with my husband anymore. He takes meds and goes to counseling. I AM JUST FREAKING BECAUSE I DONT WANT THEM IN MY LIFE AGAIN. They screwed it up and I don’t want it to happen again. Can they just come and reopen or start an new case with a new kid ? ! ? ! ?

Thanks for all the info.

Dear friends,

Now I am in a very dangerous communal or Religious problem. I have written a letter to the Holly Father, the letter is added bellow. Please suggest me what should I do?

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To,
The Honourable Holy Father
Roman Catholic Church
Vatican City

Dear Holy Father,

Subject: Seeking help for tortured christen in West Bengal, India.

I am a human rights activist from the platform of world famous Human Rights organization Amnesty International. I married to a lady from Gandhi Ji Preem Nivash, Kolkata 700119, who is christen and the daughter of mother Teresa. From that time I am getting problem from some people who heat christens. After staying near two months in Preem Dan, Park Circus on 29/09/2008 she gives birth to my baby. That time I went Preem Dan regularly and then I attracted to the holy Christianity. On 21/10/2008 many sisters from Preem Dan and France with my wife and baby came to my house then I took decision to convert myself from Hindu to Christen. After that some people who heat the Christen started to torture us by many ways. On 23/10/2008 I went to a famous ‘Kali’ temple then they attacked me. They threaten me in very slang language, told me that I don’t have any right to go any Hindu temple and also told me that they will kill us, rape us and also told that they will put me in jail by any false case. Etc. after that they called the police and told them that I am the most criminal person in the police world and I do every crime. But the local police know me very well as an honest and gentle person so the refused to arrest me but they forced to arrest me so the police had been compelled to take me to the police station. From the police station I made phone calls to advocate Ruby Mukherjee (Amnesty International’s kolkata head), superintendent of police, the ex MLA Nirmal Ghosh and some news reporters regarding my problem then OC of the police station called me and talked with me sympathetically and understand my problem with sympathy and realized me.
Now I and my family are in danger. Please save our life. I don’t have any money power and man power. After writing this letter I might not be alive. If any accident will take place then the persons will be totally responsible. And if Indian government can’t save me or can’t give protection to me then I will be compelled to commit suicide in front of Rashtrapati Bhavan.

My Name: Subhamoy Bhattacharjee
Father’s Name: Haripada Bhattacharjee
Address: Kennel side road, Po- Kalyannager, Pin-700112, 24Pgs (N), West Bengal, India.
Contact No: 03325236676, 9051372610
E-mail: pappa_1945@hotmail.com

The name of the persons who attacked on me: Arun Mukherjee
Dulal Chandra Dhara
Chadu Dhara
Gadadhar Biragi
And their associates
Address: Near Rashkhola nathupal burning ghat. P.O BD Shophan,
Pin-700116, 24Pgs (N), West Bengal.
Please of the incident: Rashkhola nathupal burning ghat. P.O BD Shophan,
Pin-700116, 24Pgs (N), West Bengal.

Date and time of the incident: 23/10/2008, 7:15 Pm

Thanking You
Yours truly
Subhamoy Bhattacharjee.

Copy to for the necessary action and Help:

1.Honourable President of India.
2.Amnesty International
3.Honourable Sister Nirmala, Missionary of Charity.
4.Honourable Vice President of India
5.Honourable Chief Justice of Supreme Court, India
6.Honourable Prime Minister of India.
7.Honourable Cabinet Secretary of India
8.Honourable High Commissioner for Human Rights, United Nation
9.Honourable Chief Information Commissioner, Central Information Commission,
Old JNU Campus, Block IV, 5th Floor, New Delhi-110067, whabibullah@nic.in
10.Honourable Ministry of Home Affairs, North Block, Central Secretariat, New Delhi – 110 001, Phone: 23092011, 23092161, Fax: 23093750, 23092763, email: websitemhaweb@nic.in

11.Minister of Law and Justice, 4th Floor, A-Wing, Shastri Bhawan, New Delhi-110 001.
Phone : 23387557, 23384777, 23384617 | Fax : 011-23384241, 011-23387259, 011-23382733
12.Honourable Minister of Personnel Public grievance and pension, North Block, LNB – Lok Nayak Bhawan, JNU – Jawahar Lal Nehru University(Old Campus)
13.Honourable Ministry of Social Justice & Empowerment,
14. Ministry of External Affairs, India
15.The Honourable Chief Minister of Gujrat.
16.Honourable Minister of Women and Child Development, Social Welfare and Jails
17.Honourable Governor of West Bengal.
18.Honourable Chief Justice of Calcutta High Court.
19.Chair Person of West Bengal Human Rights Commission.
20.Honourab

In the past month, i broke up with my girlfriend due to a very stupid reason that i dont remember. I remember that we were just fighting with each other.
After two days i came to know that she tried to commit suicide and was admitted to hospital. I was so worried!!
Then she also started to show less interest in studies and failed in couple of tests.
Then i just apologized and said “Dear im just feeling very lonely without you. I know i dont deserve you, but please return to me and make me happy.”
She was so happy that day. Now she is good with exams.
How shall i break up with such a psycho. She can even die if i break up with her. Also she is crying on my shoulder several times due to her family problems.
Im just stuck in the middle of this problem! HELP.

Basically from the start of the year my friend has not been very happy with her life, as in she thinks everythings bad and she gets depressed (shes not emo, shes sort of like a chav). And about summer last year she got beaten up by a group of youths aged around 12-17 just because one of the group members is going out with her ex boyfriend and some reason she didnt like it, she didnt tell anyone apart from me. Full Story »

She was going out with this guy who broke her heart for no reason. She wants him to see she loves him and no one else. But know she said she wants to commit suicide! How can i stop her? any ideas to get the guy to love her again? no dumb answers!