actually what does different religions think about suicide?
I know in christianity if you accepted god as your savior then you will go to heaven even if u commit suicide But I thought killing is killing ( like abortion for example) and you will go to hell and also if ur not christian

Also in buddhism or whatever my dad is He says When u commit suicide you are killing your self same as murder ..giving up on the precious life u are given and not being responsible for your self
and because you will hurt others that love u you will definately not go somewhere nice.

But isn’t that really unfair ..We kill and eat animals and do things that goes against our religious beliefs every day (..But isn’t that part of natural process for animals to each other. ) and yet we belive we are good simple because we are not doing things against the law ..but in real life we kill and cheat constantly so wouldn’t we all go to hell anyways?? [ IF HELL EVEN EXISTS ]

Plus Don’t you think its selfish for other people trying to keep you alive [ even though ur dead inside and obviously un happy] for their own good. And Don’t u think its unfair for a person who commited suicide [..because they simply can't or don't want to accept any more misery] will go to a same place as Hitler, Osama and rapists ?? and gays too they will go to hell for being who they are????

Can anyone explain this contradiction for me please im trying to understand here

every killer i have heard about or most like the guy from the columbine killings and all of those and the guy who drove the armored bull dozer and killed people with it and all of the terrorists and that why is it that they all kill them self’s in the end is their some mental problem or fear of going to jail that makes it so much worse that you kill your self cause i see this as irrational and i cant help but ask why they do this even if i was a killer and killed many people i wouldn’t kill my self

if u were to be setenced to life imprisonment would u kill your self before they setenced you?

I have always wondered if there was a such thing as time traveling, and you went back in time and killed yourself, if it would be considered murder or suicide. Both sides are arguable. It could be murder because there are sort of two people involved, and it could be suicide, because you are killing your self.

This question doesn’t really matter, I’m just curious. All opinions are welcomed, even if you think I’m crazy.

I’d appreciate an outsider’s take on this. Here’s the story:

Background: My aunt is irrational. I truly think she has a personality disorder. She is a difficult person in general.

My uncle had a lot of bad things happen to him in the previous few years. He started a new business that failed. He had medical problem and had to get one of those penis tubes (sorry don’t know the technical name lol). He was depressed. And his wife wasn’t helpful. He was so worried about money and all she did was pressure him to get back to work. (He was lying in bed for days on end depressed.)

A year ago yesterday, my uncle committed suicide. (By the way my uncle is on my side of the family and my aunt is not.)

In the Jewish tradition, one does a shiva after the wedding, which means 7 days of mourning RIGHT after the death in a house with all of the family in attendance. At some point during this time, my aunt was saying that she is so surprised that people are not offering their (financial) support, etc etc.

About a week later, my mom and her brothers and sisters got together to discuss how they would financially deal with my aunt. (By the way my aunt and uncle lived in Florida and we live in Canada). My aunt was considering moving to Canada but it didn’t work out. Anyways so my mom and her brothers and sisters decided that they would each give a particular sum of money. My mom and dad ended up giving $5,000, which is a lot for them.

My aunt also got life insurance money, around $100,000, as we found out later. My aunt ended up moving from Florida to Israel.

In the past year, we have been in little contact with my aunt. We are all busy people. My aunt is complaining that there hasn’t been enough contact and that the whole family is against her. She is also saying that she wants a steady stream of money every month. She still does not have a job, and before she was a real estate agent (although I think she is taking a course).

My other uncles are fairly richer than my mom and dad and this crazy aunt is expecting them to support her because of that.

Now here’s the kicker: my aunt does not want to speak to our family anymore. (She also has three kids– my cousins were in Israel and wanted to visit them and that’s how we found out she doesn’t want to see any of us any more– after questioning after her excuses, she admitted that she doesn’t want to see our family.)

My question is: Is she right? Does she deserve a steady stream of flow? Keep in mind that she is a major reason for the suicide AND she got life insurance money and had other money. (Also to me it makes no sense that she would deny us the right to see her kids after she argues that we don’t keep in touch enough. Seems like it’s all about the money.)
Or is she being completely unreasonable?
Forgot to say that of course my rich uncles gave her money, I don’t know how much but they gave her. The thing is that she wants a CONSTANT inflow of money.
Thank you all so much for your caring support. I really appreciate it.

Why should I bother going on with life if I can’t change how girls react to me? C’mon, I don’t know how to talk to girls the way normal guys do since I have Asperger Syndrome, I can’t read body language or take hints if they are not interested, I have a very hard time breaking the ice with a girl for the first time, basically it’s rare when I have a good conversation with a girl. I am better talking to girls online or on the phone than I am in person, but since cute girls like to be approach and get acquainted in person before they give their number out, I am screwed. So why is never having a girlfriend yet at age 20 and still being a virgin a dumb excuse to kill myself? give me good reasons why suicide is not the answer.
I feel I have missed out and there is no way I can have the fun I could have had in the past of having a girlfriend in high school or at ages 18 and 19.