kill your self to save your family.would you?????????

or your friend in a drunk driving accedent?

1 you drove in both cases
2 you ran a red light
3 you were talking on a cell phone at the time of the accedent

I’d appreciate an outsider’s take on this. Here’s the story:

Background: My aunt is irrational. I truly think she has a personality disorder. She is a difficult person in general.

My uncle had a lot of bad things happen to him in the previous few years. He started a new business that failed. He had medical problem and had to get one of those penis tubes (sorry don’t know the technical name lol). He was depressed. And his wife wasn’t helpful. He was so worried about money and all she did was pressure him to get back to work. (He was lying in bed for days on end depressed.)

A year ago yesterday, my uncle committed suicide. (By the way my uncle is on my side of the family and my aunt is not.)

In the Jewish tradition, one does a shiva after the wedding, which means 7 days of mourning RIGHT after the death in a house with all of the family in attendance. At some point during this time, my aunt was saying that she is so surprised that people are not offering their (financial) support, etc etc.

About a week later, my mom and her brothers and sisters got together to discuss how they would financially deal with my aunt. (By the way my aunt and uncle lived in Florida and we live in Canada). My aunt was considering moving to Canada but it didn’t work out. Anyways so my mom and her brothers and sisters decided that they would each give a particular sum of money. My mom and dad ended up giving $5,000, which is a lot for them.

My aunt also got life insurance money, around $100,000, as we found out later. My aunt ended up moving from Florida to Israel.

In the past year, we have been in little contact with my aunt. We are all busy people. My aunt is complaining that there hasn’t been enough contact and that the whole family is against her. She is also saying that she wants a steady stream of money every month. She still does not have a job, and before she was a real estate agent (although I think she is taking a course).

My other uncles are fairly richer than my mom and dad and this crazy aunt is expecting them to support her because of that.

Now here’s the kicker: my aunt does not want to speak to our family anymore. (She also has three kids– my cousins were in Israel and wanted to visit them and that’s how we found out she doesn’t want to see any of us any more– after questioning after her excuses, she admitted that she doesn’t want to see our family.)

My question is: Is she right? Does she deserve a steady stream of flow? Keep in mind that she is a major reason for the suicide AND she got life insurance money and had other money. (Also to me it makes no sense that she would deny us the right to see her kids after she argues that we don’t keep in touch enough. Seems like it’s all about the money.)
Or is she being completely unreasonable?
Forgot to say that of course my rich uncles gave her money, I don’t know how much but they gave her. The thing is that she wants a CONSTANT inflow of money.
Thank you all so much for your caring support. I really appreciate it.

that they are infertile? i have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. at 16 he got me pregnant and becuase i was so young and wanted to live my life first i had an abortion. I have regreted it every day since. I found out last week that my boyfriend has been cheating on me and i have chalmydia, ghonorea and herpes. It has gone so long undeteced that i am now infertile. the reason for life is to have children. i want to die, i really dont see the point in living. This is Gods punishment for me after killing my unborn baby. I was stupid. I am in a really good uni and i am a good looking girl but these things just dont matter.
honestly, who here would commit suicde if they were infertile?

like theres this group of friends but one person got alienated for some “unexplainable reason”, he/she get ignored and treated differently by others. That person is broken hearted because he/she loved and cared for his/her friends. Then one day he/she decides they couldnt stand it anymore and committed suicide.
If you were one of the “friends” how would you feel if that really happened?