I was with a guy for 5 years, since freshman year in high school. we broke up recently for 8 months..and kinda were on and off..Lets just say i broke his heart already once..and I decided a couple of weeks ago that i wanted to work things out again..For some reason though I already feel like its not..I just dont feel the same way about him as i did.. Now i dont know what to do, because if i break up with him i know he willl say the same things as he did last time. which was that he will kill him self and he threatens me. I dont know what to do..I dont want to be with him, but im to scared to break up! please help

so its a long complicated story. but the short reason is he is in love with our other best friend..who has a boyfriend..and he gets so jealous that he usually just leaves and cuts. not my favorite. well last night he called me saying he just needed to talk. we talked about the most random things from hooking up to school work.. i was so lost. i asked him y and he sent me a picture of him holding a loaded and cocked gun to his head. i started crying and he said hes thinking about it. and wont make any definate decisions untill sunday. what can i say to him? please im scared to death im gonna lose him and hes gonna kill himself all over teenage drama. but he takes everything so literally that i believe at this point he would do it. please im begging someone. i need to kno how to change his mind. my parents and brothers think hes kidding. i kno him better than that. please

i will never understand this, boyfriend and girlfriend relationship stay and go, it happens all around the world, and yet when they break up they always go run in the corner and cry their heart out as if its something to really die over. you girls cry so bad and cut yourselves while your ex is out having fun partying, MOVING ON with SOMEONE else while youre still stuck in the past crying over somebody whoes moved on and is NOT in the same state is you. wow that person is really worth the pain….

tell me why is it worth killing yourself over someone who has easily moved on and couldnt care less. OH WOW thats a good reason to kill yourself.

this is so irriatating “like OMG hes like gone! i like can’t go on living, like OMG gimme a knife so i can slit my throat!” PU-LEASE!!
Suzy my eyes are very open!! youre the dick.

was dumped my BF of 7 yeaars for a younger, prettier woman. me and my supposedly fiance never had sex due to him refusing an hiv test. then i noticed 2 purple lesions/blotches appear on his leg accompanying a huge red rash on his arm and feet with fever, vomit, and diareha. He siad the purple marks were from falling off his bike and a bebe gun shot when he was 10. 4 months later the marks never disappeared. he blamed my food for his flu like symptoms although i ate the same food and never got sick. then the last 9 months he had ginigivits and would bleed from his mouth for no reason so i never kissed him for like 2 years becuause he refused to brush his teeth. when he dumped me he told me i wasnt **** to him and he has a new girl. HOW DO I NOT BE JEALOUS OF THIS NEW GIRL THAT STOLE MY FIANCE FROM ME AND MY LIFE FROM ME? HOW DO I COPE WITH ALL THE LONLEY NIGHTS AND WEEKENDS AND SEE THE POSITIVE SIDE OUT OF THIS VERY DEPRESSING SAD SITUATION. I FEEL SO SUCIDAL LIKE I WANT TO JUST LAY DOWN AND DIE. AND BEING 35 I FEEL NO ONE WOULD WANT ME ANYWAY

My boyfriend and I have been together for the past 3 years.
Everything between us is so perfect it almost feels like a dream. He’s just amazing in every single way and we connect so perfectly that we have become very attached to each other.

The thing is, he plays football in our college’s football team and my best friend is a cheerleader so she knows him pretty well.

I have been very busy this past month studying for my exams and all that I could barely find enough time to see my own boyfriend.. and whenever he sees me, he’s always making jokes and funny comments.. he tends to be like that when I am going through exams period so I would lighten up and not be so stressed out.

After my exams were over, I finally met up with my so called best friend. I don’t know how she did it, but she told me how crazy she is about my boyfriend. She went on to say how she “confessed” it to him a couple of weeks ago. I was speechless… very upset, I couldn’t believe it.. then her exact words were, “oh don’t worry it’s not like he was responsive.. he just told me he’s in love with you and asked me not to bring this up to you because he didn’t want you to get upset especially since you had exams or whatever.”

I tried to be understanding by asking her how on earth her falling for my boyfriend has happened, she said, “you can’t explain it when 2 people are just made for each other.” I had, by that point, become VERY furious. Then she had the nerves to ask me when I was going to break up with him already because she ‘couldn’t take it anymore’ and if she didn’t have him soon she’ll ‘have no reason to live and is going to kill herself’

I was speechless again because she cried afterwards. I spoke to him about it and he said it was all act and reassured me that she wasn’t going to do anything. Although he did tell me to stay away from her and that she is not very sane, but I’m scared she might do it and I’m thinking of talking to her again. I don’t really know what’s the best thing to do, any suggestions?

I got kicked out of the military, but I got an honorable discharge after 5 years of service, then I moved in with my girlfriend of 4 years. She was a college student and her parents gave her money for school but I had bills and had trouble finding decent work, so she used a lot of her money to help me. We argued a lot about money and finally I moved home to FL to work with my Dad’s business, and I send her money every week. But now because she helped me she will not have enough money to pay her tuition, and may get kicked out of school. She waited to the last minute to tell me this and now she has to produce $6000 in one month. Her parents have money but she is too ashamed to ask them to help her and she wont do it no matter what. My fathers world is driven by money and he is a perfectionist, and in 5 years in the military, even in iraq, i have never felt as uncomfortable as when I am in a room with him. Me and my sister grew up hiding from him when he came home from work, because we knew he would be in a pissed off mood, and nobody in my life has yelled at me like he does. He is a workaholic and because i live here i am on call 24/7, we are working Saturdays and Sundays ALL DAY, ive done this many times before but the stress of being around him is the killer. Nothing I do is ever done right and he was a Vietnam Vet so me being a vet don’t mean shit to him. He makes me look stupid in front of customers and talks about me in my face with them standing there, treats me like i have never done anything in my life worthwhile. Even as a grown man being around him makes me feel like a little girl. Just today, I went to him with some ideas to smooth line our business and he starts yelling at me hardcore about some dog food plate that got spilled, a dog that he claimed he didnt want but let my sister buy because she is a spoiled bitch. Then he tells me to help him put some chairs together like it was nothing, and i did not even spill it. He also treats my mom like this. My sister is a spoiled brat who does nothing but cry and complain to get her way and give everyone attitude. My mom is a person who has had a hard life to the point that she assumes the worst about everything, if i lock up in my room a while she acts like I might be in there smoking crack. If i talk about stuff with her she just makes sure I know how disappointed she is with my current situation, and how she had such high hopes for me. I used to be a really social person, always had a group of friends, now they are all gone, in jail, or on drugs. The only person I talk to is my girlfriend and she gets mad if I don’t want to talk on the phone for 3 hours everyday. I’m so lonely its crazy, i cant even talk to my family. My girlfriend is Japanese so if she gets kicked out of school then she will have to go back to Japan, so then i REALLY wont have anyone to talk to. Im taking a muay thai class and met a few cool people but to make this money I will probably have to sell my car that I love, and then I wont even be able to escape from this house at all. If she gets kicked out of her school because of me there is no way I could live with this guilt. My life has no stability, every time i turn around its one crisis situation after the next, with no end in sight. The reason i joined the military was to get away from my family because they drove me insane, and in 5 years i can honestly say I never missed seeing them. please someone tell me what to do, i really want to end it all. I just cant take this anymore, i have spent the last year of my life everyday feeling like i want to die, hiding this feeling from others. Its affecting my health, i never used to get sick and now im sick all the time. The stress is too much to bear. Seems like every time i get enthusiasm to do something or work it out, something else cuts me down. please help me someone.